There’s nothing better than an alfresco wedding. Less stuffy yet still sophisticated, they are relaxed and casual with an informality unlike traditional indoor weddings. Like the mood, garden wedding attire is more relaxed too — but don’t take too many liberties with the word “casual”. Outdoor weddings are not the time for flip-flops, jeans or t-shirts, but instead floral prints, flowy silhouettes and statement sunglasses. To ensure appropriate attire, avoid these top “don’ts” at your next garden wedding:

1. Dress
   Avoid dress styles that are attention-grabbing — sequins, neons or provocative cuts meant to turn heads. This is not the setting to be conspicuous. Also stay away from clingy silhouettes that may be uncomfortable, opting for fabrics with drape, movement and air flow instead.

2. Color
   The number one rule for wedding guest attire is to never wear white, or any of its variants — cream, ivory, off-white, soft white, bone, champagne. Also avoid the bridal party’s theme color which may take some research but worth the effort. Let the bride, and the bridal party, have their moment.

3. Footwear
   Stilettos are not the most practical heel choice for al fresco weddings. Expect uneven surfaces like cobblestones, gravel, grass or sand, and opt for something with support like a platform, block or wedge heel instead. You’ll feel more stable inside and out. And don’t ever take “casual” dress codes literally, so leave your flip-flops, sneakers and Birkenstocks® at home.

4. Accessories
   If you wear a hat, don’t choose one that’s super tall. Instead consider a fascinator that’s airy, frilly, fun and — most importantly — not visually obstructive. Also don’t wear over the top jewelry like gobs of rhinestones that reflect sunlight or arm bangles that make noise. It’s a sacred day for the bride and groom, which must be honored and not disrupted or imposed upon.

5. Scent
   Go easy on the perfume and cologne too — smells distract away from the bride and groom just as much as attire!