Destination Wedding Attire

Nothing beats a destination wedding. Part party, part vaca, it’s usually in an exotic location that delivers fun in the sun for all. However, for those invited, destination weddings can be complicated to pack for given the rapid-fire sequence of parties, activities and outings. Every event requires a different look — each smashing (no pressure) — plus climate, culture and comfort need considering. To avoid packing your entire closet, focus on these five points when curating a destination wedding suitcase:

1. Attire
   Destination weddings are pure fantasy, and your outfits should send the same message. Think “tropical attire” for island dress codes which, above all, mean bright colors, fun patterns and exotic prints. From florals to botanicals to jungle motifs, the more decorative the better. Also consider animal exotics like a python, or an ombré that simulates a sunset. If bold prints feel too over the top, consider a tone-on-tone eyelet in a bright, happy jewel tone. For silhouette, rehearsal dinners are often cocktail dress code so a knee-length dress is perfectly appropriate. Save maxi hemlines for the wedding event dress, as it can be below the knee to floor length and just as festive in style as it is in color and print — statement ruffles, appliqués, flounces, cut-outs, plus one-shoulder, off-shoulder or strapless necklines.

2. Climate
   Climate is always a big consideration with destination wedding travel. Pack breathable, natural fibers that work well for day — linen, cotton, gauze — and lightweight fibers with drape for night — rayon, silk, chiffon. Avoid clingy fabrics without airflow and layered looks that add bulk. Humidity will help smooth out some wrinkles but not all, so budget time for a quick, light iron or enlist housekeeping services to keep your head-to-toe look fresh, sharp and polished.

3. Footwear
   Think through footwear well in advance to ensure stylish and sensible choices. Many destination weddings have beach ceremonies with 5-star resort receptions, so pick a stable shoe that can effortlessly transition between a myriad of settings — cork wedge, platform espadrille, raffia block heel. Or, consider a shoe change from ceremony to gala if your evening bag can accommodate. Leave your stilettos at home, unless you opt to go barefoot to the beach ceremony, then slip them on once back on resort grounds (very chic play!). Regardless, pack Band-Aids to protect against blisters, bites and bumps.

4. Outfits
   A destination wedding wardrobe requires careful planning, so never leave packing to the last minute. Request the itinerary as early as possible and be realistic about the variety of outfits you’ll need beyond wedding guest attire — breakfast and lunch looks, swim and resort wear, touristy outings, workout clothes, sailing, golf and/or activity gear. Wedding commitments typically include up to 4 organized events (welcome party, rehearsal dinner, wedding, post-wedding brunch), not including any planned group activities or smaller bridal party gatherings. Spend time curating looks from your closet, then fill any gaps with new purchases that are sure to be worn again.

5. Break the rules
   Destination weddings embrace unconventional dress codes so this is the time to break traditional rules. Try a fun, flirty romper for any event leading up to the wedding, then a jumpsuit on the big day. Or try convertible garments that are multi-purpose and make packing easier — a swimsuit that doubles as a bodysuit paired with a statement skirt, or a convertible dress worn as a frock by night and skirt by day. Also consider statement headwear for an extra splash of style and whimsy — a Panama hat, fedora or fascinator suitable for a formal tropical affair.

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