Dating can be tricky to navigate since it requires winning over a perfect stranger within seconds — which is a daunting notion for most. Since our appearance speaks for us in the first 60 seconds, take time to craft your message carefully. Women often overdo their first-date look due to nerves, which never translates to sexy. Ladies, let’s instead slow down, take a deep breath and follow these 5 failproof tips that promise to showcase your sex appeal — not your jitters — on a first date:

1. Sensual fabrics
   Wear yummy, tactile fabrics to soften your look and allure your date. Some touchable, inviting go-to fabrics are mohair, silk, chiffon and jersey knit. Adding leather — or patent leather — accents make for a sweet & sexy pairing, but don’t overdue it. Choose clothing colors carefully based on what you aim to communicate (see helpful guidelines here).

2. Décolletage drama
   Wear a low cut neckline — not plunging — to showcase your bust and neck. Wear a v-neck if your face has angular lines, a deep scoop-neck if round or square.

3. Cinched waist
   Tuck-in and/or cinch the waist with a belt to accentuate your bust and hips. It’s time to lean into your curves, or create some if your body has straight lines.

4. Less is more
   When it comes to jewelry, think of your body as the main accessory so leave statement pieces at home. Instead, wear smaller-scaled earrings with movement or shimmery stones to frame and brighten the face, keeping your date’s eyes on the prize (that’s you!). Never wear noisy jewelry on a first date.

5. Luscious lips
   Wear high-gloss lipstick for shiny, wet lips that play to your date’s imagination. Be sure to freshen up throughout the night to maintain a polished, kissable look.

And don’t forget to wear a smile! Presenting as warm, approachable and fun will set the tone for a sexy night.